My first podcast on the subject of tinnitus is out.
It's called Sounds of Pain.
And it's a conversation (of course) between me and Isobel Anderson.You can get it here on iTunes. Or if you're not an iTunes person, you can download it directly here.
Isobel is a singer, a songwriter and a sound artist. A seriously talented young woman with the voice of an angel, a mind that's as curious as it is creative and a sense of self that's both fragile and robust. Her songs are delicate and sure-footed, powerful and vulnerable, funny and wicked. Her wit oozes gently into her lyrics while her voice captures you. She lays bare her soul but somehow manages to hold you with a firm grip all at the same time.
She's about as talented a singer song-writer as I've heard. But she's not in the least bit interested in becoming a star.
So what's the nature of my interest in her story?
Well, a couple of years ago, out of nowhere, Isobel developed tinnitus. It all happened horribly easily. She had some wax in her ear. She got an ear infection. The infection damaged her ear. And whatever the precise medical explanations and definitions, the bottom line is that the nerves that send signals to her brain quickly seized the opportunity to create a kind of chaos between her ear and her mind.
As she puts it:
It felt like I was being tortured.
I couldn't sleep.
I completely lost it.
I was just /
My whole world turned upside down.
I had never ever imagined suffering like that. Ever.
I just had no idea that /
That could happen.
I always thought that that kind of suffering happens when /
You know /
When you're being tortured.
Her description of what happened and how she's learned to manage her tinnitus and maybe even befriend it is an extraordinary thing to listen to. And it's the first of my encounters with a series of people whose lives have been affected by this strange and very specific condition. My hope with these podcasts is to reveal to those of us who don't have it a little more of what it's like to have tinnitus. To share some stories of struggle and success. And to allow some creative air into a space that seems often to focus mostly on the medical side of things.
I can think of any number of reasons why I might hope that people will enjoy listening to this particular podcast.
First, it might be you one day.
Secondly, I think anyone who has tinnitus might find some of her perspectives really helpful or at least thought provoking.
And thirdly, anyone who enjoys Isobel's music and her acoustic, part-folk, part-blues musical instincts will find the way she peels back a few of the layers of her life so far utterly compelling.
As I've listened back to our conversation bit by bit, time and time again - as you do when you're editing - I've become more and more fascinated by how useful it can be - when you're trying to describe something as specific and hard to imagine as tinnitus - to describe something else.
(When and if you listen, you'll hear what I'm talking about.)
Now - there's a special feature on this podcast.
Isobel has written a rather beautiful song about her experience of tinnitus called Little Sounds of Pain. You can hear it within the podcast but if you want to put it on your iPod - and you so should - she's released it to coincide with the podcast going out. It's a really beautiful song. And she's donating half of the proceeds to the British Tinnitus Association who are doing really fabulous work in terms of supporting, educating and (hopefully) inspiring tinnitus sufferers all over the country. There's a big week coming up early next year for the BTA. It's Tinnitus Awareness week, from February 3rd - 9th and you can read all about it here.
So if you make your way over to Isobel's website you can buyLittle Sounds of Pain for as little as £1.00 if you like.
While you're there you'll notice that Isobel has a new album called In My Garden coming out in December. Her back catalogue is a joy to discover. (My bet is that if you listen to the podcast, you'll end up buying most of her music. I know I did.)
Right. That's it for now.
This podcast has been a pleasure to work on from start to finish. Partly because getting to know to Isobel just a little bit has been an intriguing and uplifting experience. And partly because I've been able to weave into the edit of our conversation so much of her music. And partly because I have a strong sense that I'm only beginning my journey with exploring tinnitus.
It’s been an insanely long
time since I put anything on the blog here.
For anyone who’s missed it, I’m
As the Autumn leaves turn red, delicious new fruit will appear I promise.
Meanwhile – have a listen to
our podcasts here. Now – there are ideas afoot.
If you are a tinnitus
sufferer and have a musical relationship with your tinnitus, do please feel
free to get in touch.
What I mean by a musical
relationship is this. Do you understand or perceive your particular blend of tinnitus
as a note, a pitch or a tone? And can
you describe it as such? I’m building a picture of
perspectives in preparation for a podcast on this extraordinary and unique
Already I’m delighted to say that the wonderful young folk talent
Isobel Anderson has already agreed to contribute to the show and she’ll be
featured along with a few other remarkable guests. Isobel's voice is a remarkable one. I heard her sing live at a folk club in Twickenham recently and found myself literally struggling to believe what I was hearing. Her tone has echoes of Judy Collins and Joni Mitchell. The turns and weaves of her simple but incredibly affecting original melodies honestly made me gasp out loud. Her songs are at times searingly modern and in the next moment of another time. The gentle wit of her razor sharp observations on men and her relationships with them were beautifully etched. And in just a brief conversation afterwards she began to reveal to me a fascinating perspective on not just tinnitus but pain of different sorts. So - in anticipation of my recorded conversation with her, I wholeheartedly recommend that you have a listen to Isobel's new track "Gentlemen" and all of her other music here.
And please get in touch if you feel you may have something to offer to the new show.
Karl is one of the UK's leading specialists in dialogue.
He facilitates, teaches and enables dialogue in big business, small enterprises and good organisations.
He records, edits and shares conversations on subjects that people find difficult to talk about.
And his first book on how to have hard conversations Say It and Solve It is out now.
His first programme for Radio 4 A Different Kind of Justice received critical acclaim and was nominated for a (Sony) Radio Academy Award.
Karl pops up in odd places doing different things sometimes like directing plays written by Tim Crouch with Andy Smith.
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